May 23, 2009

Real Friend



Every now and then you come across girls that seem cool and genuine, but they're completely the opposite. I for one have come across many girls like that. I am very selective when it comes to choosing my friends. I have met those that secretly want your boyfriend. Those that weren't helpful during shopping. (Saying certain pieces were ugly and then go behind your back to buy it) Those that aren't happy for your success and just want to lead you to the wrong path. And obviously those that just make up stories and spend their pathetic life talking about you. You know what I call that JEALOUSY. So I'm here to tell you, choose wisely. Real friends are hard to find. You don't need drama in your life. So if you feel that someone shady and fake is in your life right now, waste no time. Cut them out of your fabulous life! I have one friend. And I say one, because everyone else has gone out of their to make me famous. :-) She is my dearest cousin Nydia, which I admire a lot. Of course my mom comes first. ( Wouldn't want her to kick my ass).

Now back to my ensemble: Topshop jacket, Express Tee, AA Disco Pants, Luichiny Strappy Sandals, Vintage earrings, Burberry studded watch

67 comments:

Savvy Mode SG said...

you are right about true friends. Ps. love the purple ruffle jacket.

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freeteyme said...

I too am picky with friends. I only have a handful that I consider true friends.

You look gorgeous and your make up is flawless as ever. btw, I tied your smoky eye make-up tutorial - it didn't turn out as good as yours but I'm getting there =).

I hope you're enjoying the long weekend lovely!

Glamour Me Up ♥ said...

totally agree. people say you can count your true friends with both of your hands...i only need one hand...and im lovin the pop of purple with that ruffled jacket..too cute girl..you always know how to rock an outfit..*takin note as i type* lol

Fashion Victim said...

This is so amazing! and the clour of that jacket is blowing out my mind!
I've linked you!
love your blog!
xoxo
-S

daniB said...

fabulous ensemble!
lalalove the jacket & earrings(:



*dani

clairegrenade said...

Great advice, I do agree!!

this post is geat inspiration for me considering i have those same AA black leggings just sitting in my closet && i never can quite pick what to wear with them since they are so shiny

love love

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Vee said...

Hope no one's hurt you, if someone did, I hope you recover from that toxic relationship in the company of your true friends.

you look lovely as always, have a great long weekend.

vicen said...

Gracias Delmy, eres muy amable visitando mi blog, es una pena que ande tan mal de tiempo, pero siempre es un placer visitar tu blog con unos modelos tan maravillosos como los que tu nos presentas, estás preciosa en cualquiera de tus poses realmente me encantan tus fotos.
Sigue haciendonos disfrutar de tus modelos, me encantan, espero que entiendas español.
Besos,Kisses

Style Porn said...

Sound advice. But what I really want to talk about is your ruffled blazer, which is currently giving me a bad case of WANT. Also, I applaud you for rocking those AA disco pants and looking fabulous. I'll be honest, they scare me, but that's probably because I couldn't pull them off.

Posh said...

You are só gorgeous girl, love this look! <3

Shen-Shen said...

I love your jacket and those hot pants! And ugh, I know too well what you mean.. Girls can be bitchy/jealous! >:o

amy@flyingakite.blogspot.com said...

You have such a beautiful soul! I am so glad you wrote this post. I am glad that there are other girls who feel the same way as me, and give me the confidence to be strong. I think it's also so neat that like you, my two friends are my cousin and my mom.

xoxoxo! stay wonderful :)

lau-ra said...

gorgeous! i am in love with your shoes and earrings. please send by express mail to laura, belgium. no ? awww crap :)

Genevieve said...

Your header is so good!

hanna said...

i totally agree!!! real friends are truly hard to find. that purple jacket is divine on you. the color is perfect on you.

Blanquita G said...

me encanta este post!!!! es que me gusta todo, el color de tus uña, tus pendientes tu chaqueta...todo! estas muy muy elegante!

Laissez Faire said...

so so true. love the shoes, and earrings, and that purple is such a lovely colour on you:)

xx

helen said...

woow love the vintage earrings!!
and the jacket and the shoes are great!!
nice outfit!!
xoxo helen

Patricia S. said...

Love your outfit! An the clolour of the jackets look really beautiful on you! :)

Shay said...

So true. I was just having this convo with my mom. Love the jacket and the shoes.

janettaylor said...

What a lovely bright purple blazer! YAY!

XoXo

diamondsinchampagne said...

those earrings are fabulous!!!
LOVE the purple with the ruffles

Couture Carrie said...

You look so gorgeous, darling! Lovvve that jacket!

xoxox,
CC

Anika said...

Amen to the quality not quantity friends rule! And I have to revert back to fashion, I freaking love your ruffled blazer and how it picks up the purple in those gorgeous vintage earrings!!

Hanh said...

LOve your outfit! the purple is so beautiful!
Hanh,
www.life-in-travel.blogspot.com

daer0n said...

SUPER gorgeous! Love it!

Anonymous said...

Love the jacket and the eyeshadow. most perfect shade of lilac. You are so gorgeous and down to earth. Don't change :) xoxo

morena said...

This look is sooo hot :] love the colour of the jacket <3

whitneyhollington said...

spot on about the girl friends fiasco. its unhealthy to have people like that in your life, people who bring you down and back stab you. girls can be so cruel. i recently went through some tough stuff and those girls i always supported where no where to be seen. pretty selfish. so i know all about getting rid of the rubbish friends. kudos to you for rising above. :]]

on a fashion note i am inlove with those sandals, and that purple jacket. you're totally rocking it.

xoxo
mad love
whitneyhollington

Mode Junkie said...

you're rocking the disco pants delmy! ;) and i can just say amen to what you said. couldn't agree more.

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WendyB said...

Looooove that jacket. The ruffles and the color!

Mademoisselle Chic said...

you're outfit is so cute! i love the details on your earrings! :)
I agree, I don't really have many girlfriends. It's hard to find a real good friend who is not fake or secretively jealous of you. It can definitely be hurtful but that's how you learn the lessons of life.
:)

Gigi said...

I just stumbled onto your blog thru chictopia. Omg, you're so pretty and I love your fashion style!

I'll definitly be coming here for more style inspiration.:)

p.s. who would have thought a lavender purple jacket could look so hot!

Jillian said...

you look GORG in that top! purple just pops on u!

Trisch said...

You look great!

Totally agree- you shouldn't let people in your life if they're only there to bring you down.

trisch xo

Miss G* said...

I can't believe you met all these kind of "friends"!! I understand why you choose them now! I don't remember I would have meet friends like that.
Nice jacket.
Bises.

Trendy Gourmandise said...

true friends is very difficult to find but when you get one it's good !

nice outfit my dear !

JT said...

Gorgeous, from head to toe!
Amen to what you said.
<3

xoxo

sincerely,
jules

sabrina said...

Hi
I'm a regular lurker of your blog and i love it! Regarding your post, i think it's true that real friends are hard to find and sometimes you just have to trust your own instincts in eliminating those "toxic" friends. they're no good.
Spectacular outfit by the way! I really love your hair. thinking of cutting it like yours. one day, when i have the guts. =D

Emz said...

I love the purple color!

Elizabeth Victoria C said...

the purple is just amaazinnggg on you, and i really like the disco pants, i want a pair!

Annie said...

you're gorgeous! love the blazer, the color is so stunning, and your disco pants are just perfect.

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katherinelou said...

that jacket is freaking amazing and gorgeous!

and i totally agree with your post about genuine people. And i agree it's all jealously. I've been through that path and have cut down my friends to those who are NOT fake and shady :)

Cindy said...

gorgeous outfit!! The purple is stunning!! a close circle of friends beats "knowing" a large number randoms anyday!

pearlsandcouture said...

LOL. I love this post, both for the fashion and the sound advice. Not that I haven't come across the SAME EXACT types of girls you are mentioning (I had a friend who had all those NASTY qualities!), but that there is someone out there who hates catty girls just as I do....XOXO

Celly | La Dolce Vita said...

That jacket has to be my favorite piece from you thus far!
I'm hardcore loving it.
The makeup is hot!
The earrings are gorgeous. AHHH, maya! lol. *drop it like its hot*

Nika said...

so true, Ive been blessed to have great friends,but I've also had some shady ones in the past. Letting go may be hard but it's uber necessary.

love the jacket ;)

Jay♥ said...

I love this look. I especially love the color of the jacket.

Danielle said...

Love your blog! And that purple jacket is absolutely fabulous!! The color is gorgeous and the ruffles add the perfect feminine touch!

FLASHY STYLISTA said...

omg so weird i feel the same way right now very hard to find good real friends!! but anyway u look stunning as usual and u know how much i love the AA pants specially on u !!keep u head up baby !!

Lily said...

Looking gorgeous as always dear. I especially LOVE that color purple on you.

XOXO,
Lily

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seniorita_corazon said...

You look perfect!!

Fashionista* said...

just love it
you look gorgeous

londynkouture said...

cute! Love your earrings and jacket I need to bring my disco pants out!

LK

Jessie77 said...

this color is absolutely amazing on you! and the shoes are lust worthy!

Mariëlle said...

That colour looks amazing on you!

Sol said...

the ruffled jacket looks awesome on you!

Kristin said...

Love love love that jacket!

FashionJunkie said...

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Nerdic.. said...

Wow! Great look!
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Federica said...

Oh my! I just found your blog and I'm glad I did! I love this outfit! The purple jacket is gorgeous!

Greetings from Italy!
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Amanda said...

Love this look!

Connie said...

I just discovered your blog and I am love your heels. The purple ruffle jacket is killer also.

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Seriale-modeuse said...

Your style is truly amazing. J'adore :)

♥ fashion chalet said...

Where did you buy those sandals?
Your makeup is so gorgeous here. I always love the way you wear your makeup. You should make a video. :)



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