CURVES ARE HERE TO STAY

9.19.2014

Wearing: Topshop jacket | Asos tee | Levis jeans | Alexander Wang mules

In my previous post I shared that I lost 5 pounds and this morning I received an email from a so called Nadine telling me : " I think it's hilarious that you're so happy because you lost 5 pounds. Girl you got at least 40 pounds to go to lose all that fat. Just telling you what others don't have the courage to tell you." 

When I tried to reply to this individual the email no longer existed. Talk about a punk bitch. I admire so much more when you can share your opinion without hiding. Shows you got cojones. However, my message remains the same, IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOU SEE, KEEP IT MOVING. DO NOT MY VISIT FAT ASS.

 First it started out with known bloggers leaving stupid comments on my blog and now the emails. So many of you claim that as women we should support one another and yet you're the same ones doing this same immature bullshit.

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108 comments

  1. Hi. I just started to follow your site and admire your confidence (as well as your style!). Big, small, short, tall, etc it takes courage to put yourself out in this digital world where you have some people who are critical. Just keep those fashion posts coming! :)

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  2. I LOOOOOVE that you address these internet bullies and punks.
    You are losing weight in a VERY healthy way and if they're mad. Oh well!
    Honestly you looked great with the extra 5 pounds and without!
    XOXOXOXO!

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  3. I'm not a blogger.. but I am a loyal follower. And girl, I would kill to have your curves! For someone to take time out of their day just to hurl insults at another women truly proves their life is sad and pathetic. Forget that hateful bitch and rock that awesome body! Have a wonderful weekend :)

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  4. WOW, people are rude! You look great! Don't listen to that dumb bitch:)

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  5. Oh my God, people are so stupid and mean, they just say things to hurt.

    Firts, you are beautuful, and curves are a part of you, that makes you so beautiful.
    Second, you've got a baby!! It's not normal to be super skinny after this, couse you've got priority.
    Third, body shame is really dengerous, i admire you mode beacouse you stand against it, too many women feels gilty if they are not skinny, it's stupid.

    Sorry for my english I write from Italy.

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  6. They are just jealous of your gorgeous curves!

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  7. Take a moment to imagine what the person's life must be like who spends even the smallest amount of time spreading hate and negativity. I can't help but feel sorry for those people, not anger.

    This is the first time I've commented on anything on the internet, and its only to say that I love coming to your blog, because I think you truly look phenomenal.

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  8. I love you and your curves!!! You´re really beautiful!
    This earth doesn´t need another match!

    Greets from Germany <3

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  9. I have never commented before but I just have to say that you are beautiful the way you are and I'm so glad that you have enough confidence to not let stupid people like "Nadine" get you down. Love your style and your posts, keep it up!

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  10. Love your curves Delmy! That chick is a punk b*itch. Well said!

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  11. I think you're so beautiful. I wish I could be as classy and feminine as you are :) Greetings from Italy :) Ciao!

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  12. You look AMAZING. I'm 21 weeks pregnant with my first baby, and you & I have a similar body type, so I've been taking your post-baby photos as such an inspiration! Mama-curves look damn good on you, and I genuinely aspire to look that good when my little one is born.

    Haters are always gonna hate, for "Nadine" to say something like is mostly just an indicator that she's got some serious hang-ups about her own body. It's so important for women to stop spreading the kind of hate that gets shared on the internet, because without fail some of it gets internalized, and just makes the next comments even crueler.

    All that to say, don't listen to her. You look phenomenal!!

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  13. #1 "Nadine" is a coward, how pathetic is someone's life to go through all that trouble just to hide behind a phony email #2 you are so freaking hot, I would kill for a body like yours. And you're gorgeous on top of that and talented. Just saying. That's all I got.

    Sarah
    thesloppyperfectionist.blogspot.com

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  14. Whatever! You're amazingly gorgeous. Especially those unique curves!

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  15. Sounds like a bunch of HATERS to me! You look fab hun, as always! :)

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  16. You look great! Let them talk shit, clearly their miserable lives have nothing going on so they have plenty of time to hate. You MUST be doing something right girl.

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  17. Irrelevant haters are everywhere apparently! Karla Deras got some crazy comments recently too!...you're gorgeous and your curves are perfect... I mean I would probably have 5 children by now if I looked like you after just one year of being a mommy! You are an inspiration! Keep doing what you are doing hunny!

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  18. You look amazing. I just had a baby and when I lose 1 pound I want to throw a party.

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  19. Girl you don't need to lose a pound, you have a gorgeous figure!

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  20. 40 pounds from where though? You were beautiful before you had your baby and beautiful after. Some women are dumb as hell.

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  21. You look so great girl! After having a baby I can only imagine what I would look like. You are inspiration to a lot of people and if you weren't doing something great you wouldn't have critics. Bravo.

    @OhShaunie

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  22. You look absolutely perfect! I can't believe people are so rude and insensitive.

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  23. Disregard, disregard, disregard. You are BEAUTIFUL. Just as you are!! let all the rest go. Keep ur light shining!

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  24. YOU LOOK GREAT TO ME! ALWAYS A FASHION INSPIRATION!

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  25. You look great with your curves and a lot of girls would like to look like you, do not even mention that quite recently you had a beautiful baby boy... Some people need to shut up in the house and did not even touch a computer, f*** haters!

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  26. If they're about you, you must be doing something right! Dangerous curves ahead!

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  27. I think you're beautiful! I wish my curves looked as good as yours. Keep your chin up!

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  28. you look amazing! haters gonna hate...
    plus, i can guarantee you that your outfits wouldn't look right after losing an absolutely ridiculous 40 pounds. :)

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  29. Misery loves company. You're a beautiful woman with a beautiful figure and a beautiful family. Unhappy people can't handle seeing that sometimes. Continue being the lovely and amazing SHEro that you are. They say if you have haters, you MUST be doing something right :-) Lot's of love and light to you, Delmy <3

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  30. WTF is wrong with some people. I mean, you seem like such a nice person...I don't get why some people are such haters. Sometimes I wonder, if it's because they are sad or frustrated with their own lifes. Anyway, you look absolutely stunning, no matter how much you weight.

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  31. Girl! I feel you. I had my son last year September and I decided to gradually lose the weight. We have a similar shape but I had a C-section so the belly area was hard to go. That was sometimes hard for me, since I'm used to gaining weight in my butt and hips first lol.

    It's amazing what people will say while you're pregnant and then when you are losing (the baby) weight.

    I am happy with who I am. And I'm so glad that you are too.

    Sending you lots of love from Jamaica.

    Alethia :)

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  32. That's pathethic & ridiculous that some people fail to mind their own business. Do not worry or take it seriously. You look stunning! :)

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  33. So sorry that happened to you Delmy. Seriously, I just had to deal with some cruel negativity on my blog too. Its ridiculous how people think they are entitled to an opinion about you. In any event, you look GREAT! Curves are for real women. Don't ever change!

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  34. you look gorgeous! ignore such comments!

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  35. wow, first of all...whoever this "Nadine" is, she needs to get her eyes checked because you are all fabulous darling ;) Secondly, screw her and her cowardly e-mail...she's obviously on a mission to piss people off for no reason, what a sad life she must leave. To end on another positive, you rock, best response possible, love your blog!

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  36. I tend not to comment on the blogs I like to watch, but I feel that this is mandatory! I admire your curves! Maybe because I am a Latina and because of it, at least in my country, Dominican Republic, they teach us to love our curves!! It is pathetic what this person did! If he/she does not like the way you are (porque tu siempres has tenido cuerpo) what that fck is he/she doing looking at your blog? Well, maybe this person envy your body therefore, needs to try to put you down!!

    Sigue como vas porque estas linda! And kisses to your baby!!

    http://diarychic.blogspot.com

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  37. Ah! Rude.
    Good point here.
    The mainstream-Fashiony fashion bloggers (I hope you know what I mean?) never have the cojones to call out their haters but its nice to hear someone be honest about it.
    Get it girl

    And you look lovely, whether its in jeans or dressed up, so happy Friday !!
    Xx

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  38. delmy, that makes me first upset then sad for individuals that take time out of their days to insult someone else! you are absolutely gorgeous and happy you ended up not answering the rude commentator! as a plus size blogger i get all sorts of nasty comments on my weight but like you said if you dont like it keep it moving!!

    you know you are absolutely gorgeous!!!

    http://clothesmindedbyjo.com/

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  39. People are so disgusting, 5 lbs or no 5lbs you look great

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  40. ♡ YOU They are some weak..busters

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  41. Nadine is probably one of those unlucky girls, that gain 5 pounds look like they've gained 40. You are gorgeous, she is just jelly that she has no booty, because everyone knows men like a nice butt. Haha!

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  42. Wow, the anonymity of the internet brings out the worst in people! I think you look absolutely amazing, and love your curves! Keep doing you, and forget other people.

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  43. You are flawless girl!! Absolutely gorgeous. Pay no attention to all the punk ass haters!!!!!

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  44. Adorable mules!
    XO
    Jeanne
    http://fashionmusingsdiary.blogspot.fr

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  45. I really love your style! I'm so happy I came across your blog! :)
    As regards this post, people are often rude, even without reasons... Luckily you're a strong and confident person who is able to leave bad and useless comments behind! ;)

    XOXO

    Meira

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  46. Well, allow me to say this, love: I cannot begin to express what a relief it is to stumble upon a blog featuring a beautiful, stylish woman who looks REAL. I am 5'7" and teeter between sizes 8-10. To the majority of the fashion world, I'm fat. But I love my curves! I'm healthy and happy, and so are you. Please keep up your fabulousness. :)

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  47. Excuse my french but f&*# her! Your gorgeous inside and out! Nevermind these internet trolls...she can kiss your curvy ass if its a problem smh Love your blog hun!

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  48. Wow. I mean I know people like that exist but I don't understand what anybody could find "fat" or negative about your physical appearance. I think you have such a great little shape and that is one of my favorite things about you as a style blogger--those mean lady curves! (This as well is not my business to say, as I think we should never publicly comment negatively or positively on women's bodies but it is truly, aside from your style, the reason I enjoy your blog.) I just feel bad for the person who posted that if they truly feel that this is a body worthy of criticism. Of course NO BODY is worthy of criticism, as I said we are never public property to be commented on (even if we do have a blog where we share photos of ourselves. The clothes, sure, but our bodies, NEVER!). I know you didn't write this post to solicit compliments, as I've been following long enough to know you as strong and confident, but I had to say it because it is particularly one of the reasons I look forward to your posts. You're a beautiful, beautiful woman inside and out and you don't have to lose an OUNCE! But you don't need me to tell you that ;-)

    www.eye-of-arms.blogspot.com

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  49. I never comment on bloggers posts but i had to on this one. You look fine curves and all girl! Clearly you have people jealous out in these streets (GOOD JOB, EVERY FLY CLICK HAS HATERS)! Congrats on your 5 lbs. I love your blog!

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  50. I'm sorry to hear that! Haters gonna hate. Glad to see you are standing up for yourself. It takes a long time to get back to your physical and mental pre-baby self. Any idiot knows that unless you've never had your body and mind go through the amazing transformation that is pregnancy. She's probably a hater who doesn't know the first thing about being pregnant or being a woman for that matter. What a coward and a loser. You look amazing and you should totally embrace your curves. I am a latina and I looove my curvy body! I like looking like a woman...not a little girl. If you've got it.... :) Loving the look.

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  51. The only reason punk bitches make comments like that are because they have no self esteem and have to bring others down to feel up... you are so beautiful... I have short blonde hair and am very pale... I think your dark hair and lips are beyond sexy...

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  52. You are beautiful now, before your baby and right after. I don't know why people get off on saying mean things to people that would never say in real life. Hang in there and focus on the positive - and if it happens again just delete it and keep moving; addressing these trolls makes them feel like they've accomplished something.

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  53. I'll never understand why women do that. Delmy you look good. (Cannt believe known bloggers would make rude comments to you, hope I'm not following any of them)

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  54. Girl you look damn good. The nerve of some idiot to call you fat under the guise of courage.

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  55. Delmy, you look FABULOUS! Those people are out of their minds.

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  56. I visit your blog quite a bit and have been for a while and I just HAD to comment on this. Girrrrrrllll EFF those people. Jealousy is a mutha! You are beautiful! Whether you lose 5 or gain 55 you'll still be beautiful. Don't waste your time on those folks.

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  57. You look amazing Delmy! So long as you're happy and healthy, the opinions of others have no relevancy.

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  58. I love this post. Good for you for telling it like it is! And good for you for not letting stupid trolls get you down, especially with all you have going on in your personal life. I'm pretty sure karma is going to get them one day!

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  59. I am following you since your pregnancy and I like your way, your cute Little boy and your being a Woman who has curves and Shows it a lot. Be sure to stay your way and don' t loose weight. I have three children and unfortunately my tummy is not flat anymore. I like to eat, L Love to live and your Face and your confidence Shows. It should be Self evident to leave People the way they are and like to be. Remain as you are. PLEASE.
    Noone has the right to critizise in such a way.

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  60. Ive been reading your blog for years now and i always thought you had a fantastic figure. Hater are going to hate girl. Dont let it upset you cause thats exactly what they want to see.Mean spirited, insecure people can go kick rocks.

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  61. OMG, what assholes! You're beautiful no matter the weight, I'd kill for your curves!

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  62. You look AMAZING and UNBOTHERED!!! You wear your curves well and always keep in mind that 'the girls' secretly want what you naturally have.

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  63. People say mean shit because of jealousy. Jealous of your confidence and your looks. Keep doing what you do, you're gorgeous.

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  64. Delmy, I've followed your blog for ages and I've never commented before, but this post made me so sad that I felt compelled to say something. Ignore 'Nadine' - and everyone like her. I've always thought you have an absolutely BANGING bod, even more so now (and my bf agrees!) Keep rocking your outfits like the confident, sexy lady you are. Liz xxx

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  65. Women are each other's worst enemies. It's terrible. I'm so glad you have the confidence to stand proud. You are gorgeous whatever size you are because of the confidence you exude. I applaud you and wish I could be a little more like you! Congrats girl! xx

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  66. Delmy, I think you're gorgeous! From one mama to another, you have more than bounced back from pregnancy. My son is 4 and I'm still trying to get my pre-baby body back. Curves on a woman is sexy and healthy. Don't let the haters bring you down.

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  67. Ugh I hate haters. You look awesome!

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  68. I've i've been following your blog for a couple of years now and I have to say that when I first started following your blog I was extremely envious of you in a 2 piece being a young mom then it made me yearn for my pre. Baby body and my stretch mark free tummy but being mom myself I understand the changes that happen after you have children and honestly I think that even though you are not the same as you were I believe that you are even better because you've done something that not everybody can do and that if not being at the perfect weight is the sacrifice you have to make I think it's totally worth it you're beautiful you are perfect as you are please don't let anyone tell you otherwise

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  69. So, you're fine and funny, damn you really are a catch!
    In other news, testicles are actually really not tough, they are sensitive and delicate. But vaginas are really tough. I think the saying should be "you got vagina."

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  70. I've been reading your blog for eons. I believe as old as you've had it and I don't need to say anything that you that you don't already know but I just HAD to comment on this unfounded attack. Never EVER give attention to such idiotic, low self esteemed coward again. The people who love reading your blog will continue to read. Those who don't care will also remain.

    Amazing how America is beyond obsessed with skinny whilst majority of her population are obese. What an irony! Don't let anyone tell you lies.

    Your body is perfect! Beautiful, amazing curves( you actually have a shape/figure). If anyone else has something daft to say then they should come for me because I've got more than enough words to dish out on just how idiotic a lot of you lot really are. Go and pick on someone who plays with filth.

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  71. She must've been transferring her own self hatred onto you. I think your shape is absolutely beautiful! And I'm sure you don't even need me to tell you that. Love the blog!! Haters keep it moving

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  72. You look BEAUTIFUL!! And I am so glad you're confident and enlightened enough to know that.

    Keep up the good work.

    xoxo

    Long time lurker, first time poster :)

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  73. Well said, girl! I'll just quote the movie Mean Girls and say: "Calling fat someone won't make you skinnier". The person who wrote you that email it's probably a person with no personality, so, forget it.

    You are beautiful!
    Cynthia

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  74. that puta is just jealous... You always look fabulous...

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  75. bonjour delmy

    je suis du Maroc ( je n sais pas si tu connais ce pays ) et je suis ton blog depuis 2 ans , j ai tout suivi ta grossesse , ton style et tout tes postes
    je voulais juste te dire que tu es très belle , une magnifique maman et femme sexy n’écoute pas les autres et continue a nous faire profiter de jolis look , toutes mes copines d'adorent !! même ci je suis pas active avec des commentaires je regarde ton blog tout les jours !
    bon dimanche , et surtout oublie les "haters" ses des gens qui se cachent pour faire des remarques et qui sont lâchent au fond
    bisou

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  76. Lovely !
    http://www.milicakrstic.com/milicas/just-little-black-dress/

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  77. I think you're extremely sexy :)

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  78. You are rocking that look and your hair is LOVE!

    www.julialundin.com

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  79. Girl, who cares about what anyone says they clearly envy you if they keep coming to see what's going on with you. Then they must not have a life if they sit around criticizing people.

    You look like a real woman with a beautiful body that many women would die for. You're so beautiful who cares about those people say. They talk shit but yet they keep coming back to your blog and what does that say about them? I have always admired you because you keep it real.

    Best wishes,
    Sadie

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  80. I found your blog through Pinterest and have been following your blog(never commenting until today:) ever since and I think your style and body are fierce honey! And I totally appreciate seeing fashion on your curvy shape which more closely resembles mine own than some other bloggers I follow. Keep doing what you're doing!
    Keeks

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  81. You look beautiful as you are. Whether you choose to lose more weight or not that's nobody's business. I'm sorry to hear that your getting bashed from fellow bloggers. Unfortunately a lot of the blogger community support facade is BS and a front and not many can actually walk the walk and talk the talk.

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  82. I tell ya, the internet has created this veil of anonymity that idiots can hide behind and spew hate and cruelty at others. It just pisses me off!

    Needless to say, you are just as stunning as ever!

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  83. I can't believe you got an email like that, you look amazing, and I love to see that you feel so good. As for me, my behind is also quite curvy, nothing wrong with that! Bootylicious ;)

    By the way, I do wonder how perfect she really is...

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  84. oh hell no! YOU LOOK FUCKING AMAZING! I WISH I HAD YOUR SHAPE AND CONFIDENCE!

    you look amazing do not let some jealous bitch ruin that!!!! anyway ive been following your blog for years and this just threw me over! keep doing you!

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  85. I never comment but you give me so many boners because you're so sexy. Don't change because my boners will be sad.
    Love,
    You're biggest and hardest fan

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  86. Honey you look great so forget that jealous coward and keep it going. Love your style.

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  87. People are stupid. Agreed. I got a few commenters (my blog was never that big back when I did blog) accusing me of lying about my size and that I was not a real Christian (of course always anon). Haters will ALWAYS find something to criticize just so they feel good about themselves. If I were you, I wouldn't lose another pound. How I WISHED FREAKING WISHED I had your curves!! Love you, your blog, your family. I support you ma!

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  88. Just saw this and all I can say is wow! Every time you post a pic, I kinda hate you a little bit for being that damn hot AND you had a baby! I think you look better now with the curves... don't listen to the haters, seriously!

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  89. I just have two words for "Nadine" - Bye Felicia...

    Delmy keep doing you..LOVE your style.

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  90. You're beautiful. And so sexy.
    If she is 40 pounds less than you, I hope she is in an hospital taking care of her.
    Her boyfriend probably looks girls like you in the street... She should speak with him about that.
    If only I could loose those 5 pounds!

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  91. Don't listen to the haters Delmy, their just jealous. They want all that you have because your life is fabulous and your happy. Who the hell visits someone'so page just to be negative if they weren't low-key jealous?! I'd kill for your curves girl, werk!

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  92. When I saw this look I was going to tell you how much I like your curves. And then I went down to read that hater comment and thought I LOVE her curves!!!!. I actually don't think you need to lose any weight at all other wise those jeans wouldn't look as good as they do on you!!

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  93. I was thinking to myself, "OMG her body is perfect, I wish I had her shape". Girl, you are gorgeous and your body is banging eff the haters!!

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  94. Girl, if you have haters, you are doing something right.

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  95. girl you look good! but the truth is it doesn't matter whether i think so, or anyone else for that matter. look everyone is entitled to an opinion, but why do these punk bitches think they're entitled to 'VOICE' their opinion??? and to do it in such an immature way and anonymously is the epitome of punk bitchness.

    keep on doing you, momma!

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  96. Nothing else to say....your body is the bomb!!!!!!! Point blank period! Nadine probably needs to eat a couple of burgers. Men want something warm to cuddle up to, not a sack of bones!

    *from a former sack of bones!

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  97. Haters gonna hate. I would not dwell on such comments. Maybe you do not look like Anja Rubik, but yeah, that's why you are so much more beautiful!!! I don't understand why the world has gone to admire skin-and-bones-like women.

    If you really want to lose fat, lose it as much as you need to feel comfortable with yourself. If you think 5 is enough then it is. Fuck it.

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  98. I love your style you are so beautiful...the only reason that girl left that message was because she was threatened and jealous of you. Keep shining bright !

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  99. I think your beautiful inside and out. Haters will hate, I to lost 52 pounds I went from a size 18-20 to a 10. And I'm happy were I am. My husband is happy and I'm healthy. Size is a number, you have a great fashion sense and you are versatile in what and how you wear it. I like you so who cares what others think (LOL)... ERES MUY BONITA...

    www.fashion1psychology.com

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  100. you look stunning. You have an amazing figure! Kepp going!

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  101. In Jamaica we call this "bad mind". It basically means you are so jealous of someone that you can only have bad thoughts of said person. It's an epidemic here, lol. You look amazing. Love this blog.

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